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A Man’s Guide to Buying Lingerie for his Lady
by: Jessica Valentine
Most men know nothing about picking out lingerie, which is understandable because it can be confusing. What type of lingerie to buy, what size, what color – how is a man to know? Here is a little guide to help you when choosing lingerie for that special someone.
There are a few things to consider before you go out. What does she like? Remember that you will not be wearing this – she will and you should go out with the intent on getting something she will like. If she is not into lacey, tiny, see-through teddies, chances are if you buy that, she will not be in much of a mood to wear it and you may never see it. So keep what she likes in mind.
If you do not know, check out her nightgown/lingerie drawer before you leave. Check for material type (cotton, silk, etc.), colors, and most importantly, size. She may be flattered if she wears a large and you get her a small, but if she wears a small and you buy her a large, you may find yourself in trouble. Avoid anything that says "control" on the label. Those items are used to firm and flatten tummys and rears and she would probably not appreciate receiving them as a gift.
Another thing to remember is if the store offers to wrap the lingerie let them. Dainty lingerie will look better in their wrapping than if you wrap it in the paper left over from your cousin’s birthday. Presentation is part of the package with lingerie. Also, if you are uncomfortable in the store, check out online stores that sell lingerie. You can always start at Victoria’s Secret, but most major department stores like Macys and Nordstroms also sell lingerie. Final note – remember to keep your receipt just in case it is the wrong style, size, or color.
Now, what type of lingerie is available? Just about anything you can think of! Ask yourself what the occasion is. Is this to let her know you love her? If so, something crotchless or see-through probably will not send that message. But, if it is for Valentine’s Day or your anniversary, something a little more risqu might be appreciated. Bras alone have many different styles including push up, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded.
If you are purchasing a bra and panty set, always check out what she has in her drawer beforehand and definitely make note of the size – of both the bra and panties. Most places sell at least one pair of panties that match each bra, but some will sell several so you can mix and match. It will help to know what type of panties she likes to wear too – thongs, briefs, or high cut bikini.
When it comes to sleepwear, it can be just as confusing. One type of sleepwear is babydoll pajamas. They usually have very thin straps, a plunging V neckline, and are very short with matching panties. You will find most of these made out of silk or satin, materials that always make a woman feel good about herself. But, if she feels her breasts are too big or too small, or thinks her stomach is too big, you might want to avoid babydoll pajamas.
There are slips and chemises. Similar to the babydoll pajamas, these are a little longer and a little better at concealing problem areas such as breasts, butt or stomach. They too are usually made of silk or satin.
Gowns are full-length versions of the babydoll. Many are see-through or lacey and can help put your woman in the mood. Babydolls, slips, chemises, and gowns may also come with a robe.
A pajama set might not sound too sexy, but if it is silky, and buttons up the front, it can make your woman feel very sexy, especially if she is a plus size (size 18 or larger). Boxer sets have become very popular lately. The tops are tight, with thin straps and usually a V neckline, although there are boxer sets with normal t-shirt tops.
If you are really looking for lingerie to spice up your love life, take a look at Frederick’s of Hollywood (available online). They have been selling sexy lingerie for over 50 years. They have a wide variety of garter belts, bustiers, corsets, teddies (similar to the babydoll, but one piece), crotchless panties, and fishnet stockings – items that may not be available at many stores that sell lingerie.
What type of lingerie you should get your love depends a lot on her self-esteem. Many big woman love sexy little teddies, but some will shy away from them, for fear of exposing too much of themselves. Most stores sell lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. If she is really athletic, a boxer set might be something she would like. Thin women will look good in anything, but especially teddies, corsets, and babydolls.
When shopping for lingerie, try to keep in mind what she likes. If you purchase something similar to the lingerie she already has and in colors you know she likes, it will probably make her happy. But, keep the receipt just in case!
About The Author
Jessica Valentine is a successful writer and publisher interested in women’s apparel providing valuable tips and advice on finding sexy lingerie, lingerie fit, and lingerie buying guides for men. http://www.sexy-lingerie-for-her.net.
This article was posted on April 05, 2006
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If you are like most plus sized women, you have had your share of frustration with shopping for clothes. The fashion world has definitely been created to cater to a small group of women at a specific size. Fortunately, things are starting to change. There are a lot of plus size clothing lines and clothes are being made with the curvaceous woman in mind. Whether you’d like to emphasis your curves or minimize them, follow these tips to dress your best.
1. Buy clothes that fit correctly and you’re halfway to dressing well as a plus size woman. Clothes that are too tight can emphasize bumps and lumps and can make you look heavier, and clothes that are too big can make you look bigger than you actually are. If you think you’re getting away with hiding your weight under clothes, think again. If your clothes don’t fit, you’ll look heavier. It’s best to find your size and buy accordingly.
2. Flowing fabrics typically are not flattering. The billowy shapes of these garments can add on extra pounds. You need to search for clothes that have structure and shape to them. Anything that is tailored, has definite seams, and can hold its shape is a good choice.
3. No matter what your plus size is, start with a good foundation. Your undergarments are important to looking your best. Consider getting a professional bra fitting so that you know exactly what type of bra works for your body. Underwear and bras help give you the support to show off your curves and make the most of your shape.
4. Once you’ve found the right fit for your undergarments and your shape, you can make a few choices that will help you look slimmer. Monochromatic outfits will give the illusion of slimness. When you don’t have different colors creating lines across your body, you’ll look taller and thinner.
5. You can also create the same illusion with dark colors. Black, navy blue and dark brown are all minimizing colors. Wherever you wear this color, you’ll appear smaller. You can use this to your advantage if you feel like your top half is larger than your bottom, or vice versa.
6. Plus sized jeans make it easy to emphasize your good points. Flared legs make you look taller and slimmer. Look for jeans that include spandex in their material so the jeans will hug your curves without sagging or appearing too tight. Several brand names cater to plus sizes so do some searching online to find the right brand for you.
7. Wearing things that make your legs look longer will also help you appear slimmer. Wearing cuff-less pants will give the illusion of length. Short heels will make your legs look longer as well.
8. Of course, you should also choose clothes that make you feel comfortable. Wearing things that you feel confident in are the best way to show off your shape.
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